Be Yourself: Embracing Your Uniqueness

by Nat Bannerman

When I was little and feeling left out, uncertain, or like the odd bean out, Mum would always say: “Be yourself; everyone else is taken.”

She said it whenever we were unsure about who we are. Honestly? It’s magic.

The Challenge of Being Yourself

Here’s the thing: Being yourself isn’t always easy. It can feel risky, especially when you don’t see anyone around you who thinks, moves, or feels the way you do. But Mum never wanted me to be anyone else. She never asked me to change to fit in. She just reminded me that who I am, along with all my quirks, big feelings, sensory overloads, and creative explosions, is enough.

Following Your Passions

When I started leaning into what I loved, drawing, making stories, creating weird little characters, she said something else that changed everything: “Do what you love, and we’ll figure out a way for you to make money.”

That’s not advice you hear every day, but it’s been my compass. Not because it’s about money, but because it’s about value. It’s about believing that what lights you up can also light up the world.

Your Inner Spark

Now I want to turn that back to you. Are you being true to yourself? Are you the one who gets overlooked, misunderstood, or told to “tone it down” or “fit in”? Are you listening to your inner spark? That part that knows what it loves, even if it’s not what everyone else is doing?

Because the world needs that spark. Your weirdness, your kindness, your perspective. Whether you’re loud or soft, bold or thoughtful, sparkly or subtle, you matter. There is nothing more powerful than being real in a world that keeps trying to tell you who to be.

Embrace Your Weirdness

So wear the socks you love, speak in your own rhythm, and make the art that excites you. Tell the story that’s been burning inside you. Chase that idea that won’t leave you alone.

Surround yourself with people who see the real you. If you haven’t found them yet, know that you’re not alone. I see you.

Final Thoughts

And just in case no one’s told you today: You rock!

Love, Nat 💚

Earlier Magbean sketches

Being True to Yourself

It's easy to feel lost among the noise of what society expects us to be. But never forget, being authentic is the ultimate expression of individuality. Embracing who you are can lead to joy and fulfillment, and it encourages others to do the same.

No matter how different your interest may seem, dive into them wholeheartedly. This is where you'll find your true self. Let your passions inspire you and share them with the world. Each small step towards being yourself can create waves of change, but it starts with you.

Finding Your Tribe

While navigating the world, it’s essential to find your tribe, those who uplift and resonate with your spirit. You deserve relationships that celebrate your uniqueness. Connect with like-minded people who share similar passions and challenges. Remember, you're not alone in this journey of self-discovery.

Keep Exploring

Your journey doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Life unfolds in many different ways, and that’s the beauty of it. Explore, create, and embrace every facet of yourself. Each day brings new opportunities to express who you are.

Ultimately, your journey is about self-acceptance and love. You are a unique tapestry of experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Celebrate this uniqueness and remember, being yourself is the most beautiful thing you can be.